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Meet big Lou Lou

3/6/2023

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"big Lou Lou" (Image Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
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Meet Leona...

2/18/2023

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"Meet Leona" (Image Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
Leona's story...or as much as I know about it:  She is approximately 12 - 13 years old.  Her human had rescued her from this very same shelter...but then her human grew old and eventually went into hospice.  No one wanted her and she went back to the shelter...and she had been there over 220 days at the time I adopted her.  Just like big LouLou, she is now in her forever loving home and will never be up for adoption again.

The joy these two old ladies have given me since their adoption is beyond measure.

They each have their own quirks (don't we all)...yet already we have become a family unit.  Leona and big LouLou have become friends and they love to chase, hide and attack each other.  In the morning my home is filled with the sounds of little feet running every which direction.

We are still establishing our routines.  However, I am becoming aware of the fact that they are both "daddy's girls" for where I go, they go too.  A dear friend of mine pointed out to me that rescued/adopted animals really understand what it is all about and that their love is 110%.  I believe that is true.

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"Cats and Shadows" (Image Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
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The story of CJ...

1/6/2023

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"Harry...year 2000" (Image Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
In my time I've shared my life with three Maine Coon Cats.  There is nothing about this breed not to love.  They are intelligent, loving and all around good companions that become family. 

My first was a female Maine Coon named Tanya.  When I first met her, I was walking past her and her front paw reached out and grabbed my pants leg.  It was love at first sight.  She was my family for 12 years and then died from mammary cancer.

My next Maine Coon was Harry...who was a rescue.  He was Mr. Congeniality.  I've never met any cat that loved everyone as much as he did.  If someone was at the door, he would run to greet them.  I have a fond memory of a Memorial Day weekend party at my home.  Every time I looked for him someone was holding him, someone was petting him or someone was playing with him.  The next day, he was so exhausted from all of the entertaining and the "attention" that all he could do was sleep.  In spite of having a heart murmur, he lived to be 18 and 1/2 years old.

My last Maine Coon was CJ (short for Casey Jones which was his name on his papers).  When I adopted him, the vet forewarned me that he had a heart murmur.  Because Harry had lived to be a ripe old age in spite of his heart murmur, that fact did not bother me.  I adopted CJ with my eyes wide open.  CJ had a good life...he was my family and my nickname for him was "Little Friend."  He was not only an independant dude but he was also a one man cat.  And I was able to share 13+ years of life with him...and I believe it was a very good life for him.  He was about seven years old when I retired...and then we both moved from Pacifica, CA to NW Wisconsin.  We went from a one bedroom condo to a 2,100 square foot house with lots of windows including two bay windows, one French door, and one sliding glass door.  Here he positively thrived.  He loved watching critters from the windows.  He even had a dog friend that would come a visit.  CJ was one happy little guy.  Sadly, that abruptly ended 11/5/2022.  CJ died unexpectedly of advanced heart disease.  The loss of my little friend...my intrinsic family member was so sudden and unexpected, that I've had a hard time coming to terms with his transition.

Advanced heart disease???  What the hell???  He was fine, running around, eating like he always did...and then he was dead.  Suddenly his hind legs were paralyzed...and three hours later he died.

Since the day that CJ died, I've done some research regarding heart disease with Maine Coon Cats.  I was surprised to learn that 30% to 34% of all Maine Coon Cats are born with this defect.  Some die at two, three and six years old.  At this point in time there is little that can be done about this defect.  My comforting thought is that the love and loving forever home I gave CJ allowed him to be 13+ years old.

This is not a cautionary tail.  If you adopt a Maine Coon Cat they will easily become your family and fill your life with joy.  However, if your Maine Coon is diagnosed with a heart murmur (one of the first signs of the defect), love her/him with all of your heart and make sure their days are filled with adventure...for their love of you is unconditional.  Make sure that although their life may be short, it will be the best life ever.

I believe that I did that for CJ although I did not realize how that the hours, days and years were being counted.  It was worth every minute.

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You do not have to be good...

2/4/2019

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"St. Croix River, Spangler's Landing" (Photo Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
“You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body 
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting –
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.” 

  ~Mary Oliver
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"Like a bird in flight, your life can soar above the troubles of the world.Breathe deep, choose, and break the shackles of your past. Fly Life on Free Wings, and Sing to its Glory."  ~ Jonathan Lockwood Huie

1/4/2019

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"Sharp Beach Golf Course" (Photo Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
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“Last year’s words belong to last year’s language. And next year’s words await another voice.”  ~T. S. Eliot

1/1/2019

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"Early Morning Light" (Photo Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
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"Take a leap of faith and begin this wondrous new year by believing. Believe in yourself. And believe that there is a loving Source - a Sower of Dreams - just waiting to be asked to help you make your dreams come true."  ~ Sarah Ban Breathnach

12/31/2018

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"Jack Frost Thoughts" (Photo Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
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"May the world be kind to you, and may your own thoughts be gentle upon yourself."  ~Jonathan Lockwood Huie

12/30/2018

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"New Snow" (Photo Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
"This is my wish for you:
Comfort on difficult days,
Smiles when sadness intrudes,
Rainbows to follow the clouds,
Laughter to kiss your lips,
Sunsets to warm your heart,
Hugs when spirits sag,
Beauty for your eyes to see,
Friendships to brighten your being,
Faith so that you can believe,
Confidence for when you doubt,
Courage to know yourself,
Patience to accept the truth,
Love to complete your life."
  ~Anon
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"True friends are those who lift you up when your heart's wings forget how to fly."  ~Anon

12/29/2018

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"Trade River" (Photo Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
"Everyone hears what you say.
Friends listen to what you say.
Best friends listen to what you don't say."
  ~Anon
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"No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change."  ~Barbara De Angelis

12/28/2018

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"The Last Days of December" (Photo Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
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