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February Days:  The Toboggan Hill...

2/17/2026

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"The Toboggan Hill" (Text & Image Copyright Wylddane Productions, LLC)
“Happiness is only real when shared.”  ~Jon Krakauer

The hill above Stillwater Gleam had always been steep enough to invite courage.

On that winter afternoon, it invited joy.

Liam stood at the crest beside Ethan, stamping snow from his boots while Bear bounded in excited circles, kicking up glittering powder. Isabel peeked from Ethan’s stomach pack, her amber eyes alert and amused, tail flicking like a tiny banner. High above them, Ragnhilde traced slow circles in the pale blue sky, her dark wings carving quiet arcs against the cold.

Down the trail came Maren and Lucy from Bean & Birch, hauling a bright red sled piled high with thermoses and bakery boxes. Behind them trudged Erica, Sam, Martha, Toby, Tom—and myself—each carrying firewood, laughter already rising into the crisp air.

“This,” Maren announced, dropping the sled with a theatrical flourish, “is officially a sanctioned afternoon of foolishness.”

“And coffee,” Lucy added, lifting a thermos like a sacred offering.

A bonfire soon crackled at the top of the hill, sparks drifting upward like tiny stars searching for a sky. Mabel, Liam’s border collie, darted between boots and sleds, her energy contagious.

“Ready?” Ethan called.

Three sleds lined up at the edge.

Ethan, Bear, and Isabel claimed the long wooden toboggan. Liam crouched low behind Mabel on a battered blue sled. Maren and Lucy leaned forward on theirs, cheeks flushed pink with anticipation.

Ragnhilde gave a sharp cry from above.

“Go!”

The world tilted.
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Snow roared beneath runners, wind tugged scarves loose, and laughter exploded down the slope. Bear barked into the rushing air. Isabel flattened her ears but purred anyway, eyes wide with thrill. Liam whooped as Mabel balanced perfectly at the front of the sled, guiding them like a captain at sea.

Maren and Lucy shrieked as their sled caught a faster line, overtaking the others for a brief, glorious moment before spinning sideways in a spray of snow.

At the bottom, everyone collapsed into a tangle of coats and laughter, breathless and glowing.

Above them, Ragnhilde swooped low, her shadow skating across the snow like a brushstroke of midnight.

Again and again they climbed, the hill becoming a rhythm—climb, laugh, fly, fall, repeat. The sun began to sink, turning Stillwater Gleam into a ribbon of copper light.

At last, when the sky deepened toward lavender and blue, they gathered around the bonfire. Steam rose from mugs of coffee and hot chocolate. Pastries from Bean & Birch disappeared quickly into mittened hands.

No one hurried.

Stories drifted into the dusk. The fire crackled. Mabel lay at Liam’s feet. Bear stretched beside Ethan, eyes half closed. Isabel watched sparks rise like tiny constellations. Ragnhilde perched on a snow-dusted pine, silent and watchful.

For a moment, the world felt perfectly held—friends chosen and cherished, furry companions woven into the circle like threads of warmth.

Eventually, one by one, they parted.

Boots crunched softly as paths diverged toward glowing windows and waiting hearths.

Back at the wee cottage, Ethan replenished the fire. The flames leapt higher, casting gold across cedar walls. Bear collapsed onto the rug with a satisfied sigh. Isabel curled into a perfect orange comma near the hearth. Ragnhilde settled outside on the railing, a quiet guardian against the falling night.

Ethan sank into his chair, cheeks still flushed from cold and laughter.

The day had flown like a sled down a hill—fast, bright, and unforgettable.
And in the stillness that followed, the warmth lingered.

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Outside the window this morning, the sky is heavy with clouds. The forecast promises rain—rain in February, which feels almost mischievous for the Northwoods. Yet I find myself smiling.

Perhaps it is because of yesterday’s imagined hill at Lone Pine…or perhaps because stories like that remind me of a simple truth:

Life is meant to be a beautiful adventure.

As I sit here with a steaming mug of coffee, the room slowly filling with light, Patrick Thomas Hawes’ Quanta Qualia drifts through the air—haunting, tender, alive. The music feels like a conversation between winter and spring, between memory and possibility.

It would be easy, on a gray morning, to slip into routine and merely exist.

But these words speaks gently today: if I lose sight of life as an adventure, I begin to move through it half-awake. So instead, I begin with gratitude. I whisper a quiet prayer for the opportunities hidden within this day—some known, many still unseen.

Adventure does not always look like toboggan hills and bonfires.

Sometimes it looks like rain tapping softly against the window.
Sometimes it looks like a phone call, a task completed, a smile offered to a stranger.
Sometimes it looks like simply showing up—with a cheerful bearing, a willing heart, and an openness to wonder.

Yesterday’s story reminds me that the greatest adventures are often shared. Chosen family. Old friends. Furry companions who walk beside us through every season. Even the smallest gathering can become sacred when it is filled with laughter and presence.
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As this day unfolds, I want to celebrate it—not only the grand moments, but the quiet ones too:
  • the warmth of coffee in my hands,
  • the music that fills the cottage,
  • the relationships that anchor my life,
  • the chance to dream forward while standing fully in the present.
Rain or shine, winter or spring, each morning offers the same invitation:
To live—not merely exist.
To greet the world with gratitude.
To carry joy like a lantern through whatever weather arrives.
And so this day begins…with a heart open to adventure.

~Wylddane


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“August is a time of growing up, of forgotten forever’s, full of the sweetest intent.”  ~Meka Boyle

8/2/2024

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"Flowers that Party" (Image Copyright Wylddane Productions, LLC)
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"Summer has a flavor like no other. Always fresh and simmered in sunshine."  ~Oprah Winfrey

6/5/2024

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"Summer Daze" (Image Copyright Wylddane Productions, LLC)
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Dreams & Promises

7/4/2023

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"A Toast to Promise" (Image Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
“The American Dream is that dream of a land in which life should be better and richer and fuller for everyone, with opportunity for each according to ability or achievement.   (It is not) “… a dream of motor cars and high wages merely, but a dream of social order in which each man and each woman shall be able to attain to the fullest stature of which they are innately capable, and be recognized by others for what they are, regardless of the fortuitous circumstances of birth or position.”

~James Truslow Adams
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The Little Christmas Tree Bell...

12/3/2018

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"The Little Christmas Tree Bell" (Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
My parents were married on a November day many years ago.  That December at Christmas...their very first Christmas together as a married couple, they bought this little bell to hang on their Christmas tree.  This wonderful little ornament has been on every family Christmas tree since then.

It hung on the tree of their first Christmas together.
It hung on the Christmas trees of the years when my sister, my brother and I were born.
It hung on the Christmas tree of the year of my sister's death.
It has hung Christmas trees of the years of school and graduations.
It has hung on Christmas trees during the years of my brother's and my marriages.
It hung on the Christmas tree the year I was divorced.
It hung on the Christmas tree that I came to terms with being gay.
It hung on the Christmas tree as my family absorbed this knowledge and move on with understanding and love.
It hung on the Christmas trees of the years that each of my three nieces were born..and was there for all of their Christmases until the grew up and moved away.
It hung on the Christmas tree, sadly, the year my father died.
It hung on the Christmas trees each and every year that followed as my mother endured the grief of losing her life partner.
It hung on the Christmas trees each and every year after I moved to California.
It hung on the Christmas trees each year as my three nieces got married and started their own families.
It hung on the Christmas trees of years of good times and of years that were less good.
It hung on Christmas trees that were the center of family get-togethers and the house was filled with joy, laughter and love.

Then, the last summer my mother was alive and while I was home visiting her...she gave me this ornament and asked that I continue to make sure it would be hung on my Christmas trees with memory and with love.  Mom had no major life threatening illness at the time...so I've often wondered if she knew within her soul that there would be no more Christmas trees upon which she would be hanging this little bell.  She died that December.

So each year since then it has hung on my Christmas trees.  It is carefully placed on a sturdy branch near the top of the tree each year in a ceremony of love, smiles and memories.

It has since then hung on my  Christmas tree the year of my sister-in-laws death.
It has hung on my Christmas tree each of the years my great nieces and nephews were born and entered life.
It hung on my Christmas tree the year my brother died.
It has hung on my Christmas trees all of the years of my chosen family get-togethers.
It has hung on all Christmas tree of all of our family lives.

So, you see, this little Christmas bell has had quite a history.  One can almost feel the glow of the memories it must harbor after all these Christmases.  It, strangely enough, no longer seems inanimate but rather it is a family member too...that is cherished and loved.

This year as I hung it on my Christmas tree I noticed how worn and old it now looks.  It no longer sparkles like it once did.  However I have to admit I am now too a little worn and old...and I no longer "sparkle" with youth as I once did.  The years have gone by so fast and it has been an incredible journey.

Someday in the future it is my hope that this tiny Christmas tree bell will be hung on someones Christmas tree with the same love and reverie with which it has graced all of our trees.

God bless and Merry Christmas!



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"Afternoon Glow"

8/18/2018

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(Photo Courtesy of Wylddane Productions, LLC)
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"A Home With a View"

8/12/2018

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This Sunday morning I am happily remembering my home in Pacifica, CA...and of watching the fog roll in off of the Pacific Ocean on a summer afternoon.  In my years of living there I always enjoyed the play of sunlight and fog...and the shades of color it gave to the coastal mountains.
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Saturday night bliss...

8/21/2017

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This not a great photo...and arguably none of my photos are great...however the reason I like this photo is because it captures a time of quiet on a Saturday night.
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Happy Pride Weekend!

6/25/2017

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The above collection of photos are from various Gay Pride celebrations (2002 - 2015) in San Francisco, CA.  Always high energy, always a lot of fun, always a lot to see and do...and I wish I were there right now.  However, I am now here in Northwestern Wisconsin so instead I will visit those wonderful stops along Memory Lane.
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Revisiting the old stomping ground...

5/2/2017

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35+ years ago I lived in the neighborhood.  This past Sunday was a chance to stroll the streets that I briskly walked upon when I was in my 20s.  This is in the Cathedral Hill area of St. Paul...just off of Summit Ave. and this particular intersection is a block from Maiden Lane.
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